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Misconception About Fifty-Fifty
Friday
24th November
2006
The concept
of ‘fifty-fifty’ is being misunderstood and misinterpreted
by many people, who believe that it is a western ideology
for women to constantly challenge their husbands on anything
and everything, for ideological reasons. Well, not all women
agree with this stance. And it is also unfair to accuse
women activists of being in the forefront of this
‘fifty-fifty’ issue, yes! But what they (women activists)
mean by their stance is different from what many people are
taking it to mean.
I think it
is better for people to know about the whole idea about
something before speculating about it, because the idea that
‘fifty-fifty’ is to challenge one’s husband unduly, is
indeed a misconception.
In fact
what is being advocated by activists under the ‘fifty-fifty’
slogan, is equal rights between the sexes: equal rights to
education, health, decision-making, inheritance, leadership,
and so on. This has been fought because there has been the
belief that only a boy child should receive an advanced
education while the girl child should be at home helping her
mother on domestic chores. After all, this attitude has been
based merely on prejudice rather than on reason and justice.
The truth
is that both sexes are equally entitled to health care, to
advanced education, to inheritance, and all other matters.
In
leadership, women should be given equal opportunity as
veritable and dependable partners in development. To deny
women access to some leadership positions on basis of sex,
is stark discrimination, which should be fought tooth and
nail. I believe this is what activists really mean by the
‘fifty-fifty’ slogan. Still on the subject of leadership, we
have many responsible and substantive women in this country
and the world in general; a fact that speaks clearly for
giving women a ‘fifty-fifty’chance, as advocated by women
activists.
Finally,
let me assure everyone that women can be great
problem-solvers, even more so than their male counterparts;
they are very capable of making superior decisions, and
tactfully dealing with delicate, difficult, or sensitive
situations. But first, they should be given the
opportunity!
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